As a coach and a team facilitator, I am very often asked about advice, what could I do in this situation?
What would you do ?
And I always answer the same reply :
“I do not tell people what to do. I believe you are able to take your own decision. I trust you for who you are. My role is to hold space and mirror for you to face your shit”.
I get a staring usually.
“ you’re coach, it is your job to tell..”
Well I am not this type of coach and actually I am not this type of human being.
I trust people.
Meaning : I see you and I trust you. What you are going through is what you have to face and you are able to face it.
And I am here to go through with you.